Shape Your Identity Or It Will Shape You

“Keep your identity small.” —Paul Graham “Identity” has become somewhat of a dirty word, especially in Silicon Valley circles.  In many minds, the word “identity” goes hand in hand with the word “politics”; a divisive tool used by politicians to win voters by appealing to religious or ethnic affiliations. YCombinator founder Paul Graham even wrote…

Help the People You Know with Small Gifts

Relationships are living, breathing things. Feed, nurture, and care about them: they grow. Neglect them: they die. The best way to strengthen a relationship is to jump-start the long-term process of give-and-take. Do something for another person—help. But how? Here’s a good example. When Jack Dorsey was cofounding Square—the mobile payments company that turns any smartphone…

Your Network: Professional Context vs. Personal Context

In my previous post, I wrote about why relationships matter in your career. Yet, “relationship” can mean many things. It can be long-distance or proximate, project-only or long-term, emotionally close or purely professional. There are bosses, coworkers, colleagues, and subordinates. There are friends, neighbors, family members, and long-lost acquaintances. There are people you relate to out of love,…

Why Relationships Matter: I-to-the-We

Even if you realize the fact that you are in Permanent Beta, even if you develop a competitive advantage, even if you adapt your career plans to changing conditions—even if you do these things but do so alone—you’ll fall short. World-class professionals build networks to help them navigate the world. No matter how brilliant your mind or strategy, if you’re playing a…

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5 Keys to a Strong Career Plan

In my earlier posts I’ve written about how to establish a competitive advantage in the career marketplace and how to do flexible career planning via Plan A, Plan B, and Plan Z. Here, I want to recap five key considerations you should keep in mind when you are crafting any sort of career plan. 1. Leverage Your Competitive Advantage…